This year, I have resigned to the fact that I am not going to get out a card, and neighbor gifts might just be a miracle. I am grateful for this baby coming, but my body does not like it one bit. I just told Paul that maybe I am a hypochondriac. I would take that over a pinched sciatic nerve, an aching back, puke...still, and just today, carpel tunnel pain. My house doesn't get picked up unless Paul is home, or I get out my broom and sweep everything (and I mean everything) into a pile and then I can take care of it easier. I think I am being taught patience, I still have 2 months left, but I am not patient enough to learn patience.
Our year has had it's many ups and downs. Some I talk about, some I don't. Regardless, we have been so blessed. I know that through our trials we grow and become stronger people. I also know that it is hard to see that growth until we are at the end of the road. That being the case, we've grown a lot this year. Our kids are troopers and have lived through it all. They are so full of energy and love and we are grateful that they chose to be in our family. As Ellie says, "You want to join the family hug? I love my family." Wise words from a three year old. I love my family.
An attempt at a family letter might look like this:
Dallin is five and a half, and is in Kindergarten this year, and although he would rather stay home everyday, we know he enjoys learning. He loves to draw, paint, cut, and play with his Legos. He would sleep with his dad's ipod every night if we let him. His dad is his best bud and he loves to be involved in any project going on around the house. Ellie is now a spit-fiery three year old who loves pink, although informed us recently that her new favorite color is purple. She loves to help mom in the kitchen. She adores her brother and misses him while he is at school. She loves her dolls and any little toy. She loves to give her toys baths multiple times a day. Dallin and Ellie are really good at making us laugh. They are really good at making each other laugh. They love to wrestle each other, and giggle until someone gets hurt, which leaves them both crying. They are good friends. Paul is our rock. He does most everything. He is Mr. Mom and Mr. Dad. He is going straight to heaven with all that he does to support us. We are so grateful for him. When he is not cleaning up throw up or wiping a poopy bum, he is hard at work somewhere inside or out, trying to get our home to where we want it to be. Kristen is Kristen. She hobbles around and is really moody. She is ready for baby boy to come in February, as is the rest of the family. We feel blessed to be so dysfunctional at times, because what would be the fun in being normal?
We love you and hope that you all have a wonderful Christmas!